« p.62: "One of the essential purposes of high-profile visits is to help a child differentiate his or her thoughts from those of his parents in the presence of the latter." p.84: "The professional is not a mediator in the sense that he does not have a position of neutrality towards the various persons present; on the contrary, we will see that it must take an indispensable position of protecting the child's psyche." p.86: "This `mediated visit` device has been clearly defined as "allowing contact between parent and child by protecting the child from parental pathology. High-profile visits are made for children, "not against parents." »

« p.56: "A common mistake is to confuse attachment, especially bonding with a person, and being good with that person, especially when a child asks for parental contact to replicate these pathological interactions." p.128: "For a child, nothing can replace the investment, the attention, the personalized affection of a small number of people during the first year of his life. Outside of this context, psychic damage occurs very quickly, but it most often goes unnoticed because it will only take its full extent between 1 and 6 years, at the time of the first learnings and the beginning of socialization." p.140: "The psychic work of separation is first and foremost a work of disillusionment, work constantly hampered in everyone by the ideology of the link." »